My friends Karen and Billy came over for dinner last night (fish tacos) and she brought me 2 lovely gifts ~ one, a bowl of fresh cut up melon and two, a book which she put on my coffee table when she came in. As I was in the middle of getting the tacos together, I quickly only noted one thing that she pointed out about the book, which was that she had spilled water on it and so it was kind of “wonky” in appearance.
This was significant to us both, as my lovely friend is probably the only person I know who will lend me a brand new copy of a book before she’s even read it. Honestly, a brand new, unopened book is sacrosanct to just about every avid reader I know ~ except Karen. I try to turn the pages in little laps, not leave it open spine down, not take it to the pool and every other trick known for keeping a book pristine. Invariably and inevitably, the borrowed book ends up with a lipstick smudge, or a coffee dollop or a wine splash or some other tell tale sign that I was engrossed and consequently sloppy. Karen never seems to mind though ~ a trait I find both big hearted and enviable.
So her handing me a book that was so used was notable. It wasn’t until this morning that I actually realized that the book was one she and I had discussed called 29 Gifts. This is a book written by a woman named Cami Walker who is diagnosed with MS and changes her attitude and her life through the simple act of giving (and consequently receiving) 29 gifts in 29 days.
Not only did I love concept right off the bat, but the writing style of her book was like reading my own thoughts. She writes about pity parties. She writes about jumping out of planes without parachutes. She writes about not being willing to seem disabled to her friends. She writes about anger, humiliation, sorrow, frustration. I swear, if she knew the word hirple it would have been in this book.
Her “prescription” from a friend to give 29 gifts changed her in uplifting ways and inspired her to start www.29gifts.org. I have joined up and am starting my 29 day journey today, right now. Karen gave me the gift of this book and the idea of 29 gifts, and I am passing that gift on to you!